Many people have this question, “when did you know he was the one?” It’s a tricky question somehow to answer as there are so many other factors. For some, it might be when they first laid eyes on him or when he said those three words for the first time. Others might say that it took them years to realize who the right man is for them. However, some don’t believe in love and just live life day-to-day without any expectations about their future relationships with others.
Who knows? I guess it can depend on your values and goals in life and what kind of person you want to spend your time with. But one thing I do know is that love will find
When you were able to be yourself around him
Everyone has that one friend who is always talking about their boy/girlfriend. They are very open with their relationship and seem to be inseparable, which might tempt the average person into believing that this kind of bond only exists in movies or fairytales. However, I think you’ll find that when you meet someone worth it, they will understand how you feel and show an interest in who you are even when it’s just the two of you. This is because they want to know more about who you are as a person rather than your relationship status.
He challenges you to become better
Everyone has flaws. Nobody is perfect. When someone truly loves you they won’t just see your flaws but love you for them. They will understand that everyone has their struggles and help by guiding you in the right direction. However, it may be time to move on if someone is trying to change everything about you without even wanting to hear how you truly feel. You might find yourself questioning what you’re even doing because they don’t seem to understand that your intentions are pure and the only reason you have those flaws is that you were dealt a bad hand from the beginning.
What’s most important is being able to trust them as well as open up without feeling judged. If this person is worth your time, they will never try to hurt or manipulate you into doing something you don’t want to do. Their only goal is for your happiness, not any selfish needs they may have.
He took his time getting to know you
When someone truly loves another person, they won’t force themselves on them. They will make sure that the other person feels safe with them before taking the next step. Sometimes people are tempted to take someone home just because they’re good-looking or feel like they’re better than everyone else. However, this kind of person doesn’t care about your feelings and will never understand what you want out of life.
They don’t talk much before meeting up with them, maybe once or twice via text. If they really want to get to know you, they will take their time and won’t be that flirty person at the bar who is too drunk to understand what’s going on. They don’t care about how much money someone has or what kind of car they drive. All they need to see is the person’s heart.
He is willing to do anything for you no matter the time or place
It’s important to be understanding of each other and willing to help one another through their struggles. However, if they don’t seem to care about what’s going on in your life, then its not worth spending that kind of energy with someone who only has bad intentions. Everyone has their story, but what matters the most is how you treat them now.
Sometimes people are so busy in their own lives that if they don’t seem to care about yours, then it’s not worth your time. If he gets mad just for coming home late one night, then maybe it’s time to realize that they can’t handle being with someone who has a busy schedule.
When you’re in love, it’s important to spend just as much time getting to know the person as your life is worth. If someone loves you more, they will try their best to understand what’s important in your life and d of qualities you admire in others.
When he was always there for you no matter what
When someone loves you truly they will be there for whatever you need. If something is wrong, he would try to fix it even if that means staying up all night to talk about it. Sometimes people can give up on their significant other when things get too tough, but this person isn’t like that. They are willing to do everything to make sure that their significant other is okay.
If he was always there no matter the time or place, maybe this person cares about you. They are willing to go so far for someone they barely even know. Imagine how much they would be willing to give if they truly saw a future with them.
he made you laugh so hard that you were in tears
Everyone loves to spend their life with someone they can laugh with even when times get tough. When someone loves you, he will try his best to make you laugh no matter how bad things may seem. They do this because they know that laughter can help better their entire mood, and they want to ensure that their significant other feels the same way.
If this person was always willing to joke around with you, they might be the one for you! This person can also laugh at themselves, which shows an ability, to be honest about their struggles. Sometimes people just want to feel normal, and having someone who can understand makes them feel much more comfortable.
When the thought of losing him scared you more than anything else
When someone loves you, they will make you feel like no one else in this world matters. Because of this it’s tough to imagine that the thought of losing them would be more terrifying than anything else. A person who truly cares about another person is willing to do whatever it takes to keep them happy and healthy!
it still feels like love, at first sight, every single day
Knowing that someone loves you is excellent, but when it still feels new every day, this person must have really made their mark on your life. Love, at first sight, can be hard to come by because people are constantly changing, but if the love is still there even when it’s been months or years, they are most likely the one for you.
When all you wanted was to make him happy even if it meant hurting yourself
If you know that the only way to make someone smile is by crying, this person has genuinely stolen your heart. Loving someone also means you should know when to let them go after they have done something wrong, but what’s important is that you realize that this person will do anything to make sure that they feel awful for hurting you.
When he told you that your happiness mattered more than anything else in the world
When someone loves you, then they are willing to put your happiness over their own. If he was always telling you that your happiness is more important than anything else in the world, then maybe this person does love you. This person also likes to show their affection off rather than tell you how much they care, such as always making sure you’re okay when you’re in a bad mood.
Love is complicated, and so many factors play into it, but if you can find someone who really knows what makes your life better, then it’s the best feeling in the entire world! Even though love takes time and effort to work, it will be so worth it if you find someone who makes you feel like the best version of yourself.
when he asked to marry you after just 5 months of dating
Knowing that someone loves you is one thing, but when they are willing to marry you after just five months, this person really must be the one. When people genuinely love each other, they want to be with them forever, which means making big decisions like getting married way before most couples would.
Love takes time to build, but when people are compatible with one another, they can feel in their bones. If you’re not really sure about your significant other, then maybe take some time apart until you know if they are the person you want to spend your life with.
Blog post conclusion paragraph:
You know he is the one when your relationship feels like it’s effortless. It should never feel like you are constantly working to keep him happy, or worse yet, feeling neglected and unappreciated. When I look back at my previous relationship that has lasted for years with people who were not “the one,” there was always some form of tension in our interactions because we had different needs- at least personally speaking.
If this sounds familiar to you, don’t be afraid to take a break from the relationship while you evaluate what you want out of life, either together or apart. Sometimes taking time off can help us see things more clearly before making an important decision about our future happiness.
